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What An MBA Didn’t Teach You About Sales

The sales profession is challenging. You need to work hard at it to succeed. You need to learn from the best. You need to improve your skills continuously. If you think you can sell since you are a hit at parties and have a lot of friends, you may soon find that you are a failure as a salesperson. Blunt truth:

because the sales profession is so hard, you have to focus on doing everything in sales very well, or you will be considered a failure.

I call this blog, Skinned Knees because I try to relate all of the learning that I have done over the past 4+ decades (while skinning my knees in the learning process).

I hope that you learn from my mistakes so that your business will grow!

Two Tall Guys Talking Sales – Winning Sales Strategies for Productive, High-Impact Pipeline Reviews – Episode 149

by Sean O'Shaughnessey

Pipeline reviews don’t need to feel like an ambush. In this episode, Kevin Lawson and Sean O’Shaughnessey break down how to turn pipeline meetings into high-value working sessions that improve sales management, strengthen sales processes, and accelerate revenue generation. The conversation focuses on preparation discipline, trust, and transparency, as well as a practical playbook for advancing complex deals through relationship mapping and peer-to-peer executive engagement. You’ll hear straightforward sales strategies you can implement immediately, whether… Two Tall Guys Talking Sales – Winning Sales Strategies for Productive, High-Impact Pipeline Reviews – Episode 149

Cut Through the AI Hype: Practical Definitions for Sales Professionals

by Sean O'Shaughnessey

Artificial intelligence is transforming sales, but too many leaders are investing in tools they don’t fully understand. The result? Costly mistakes, poor adoption, and missed opportunities. This episode of AI Tools for Sales Pros breaks down the three core technologies behind AI: and explains them in plain language that every sales professional can use. The episode compares the current AI confusion to the database revolution of the 1990s. Just as sales leaders once needed to… Cut Through the AI Hype: Practical Definitions for Sales Professionals

Beyond Quotas: Elevate Your Sales Strategy with Continuous Coaching

by Sean O'Shaughnessey

Salespeople often rely on short-term tactics to hit their numbers. But what if the difference between mediocrity and excellence isn’t in the last-minute push, but in the way we plan, coach, and lead throughout the year? Many sales managers treat coaching as a reactive measure, something they do when performance drops. That’s a missed opportunity.

Proactive coaching isn’t just about fixing issues. It’s about enhancing potential.

The best salespeople in the world, much like top athletes, have coaches. Not because they’re failing, but because they’re trying to be even better. If your top rep is hitting quota, that’s not the finish line. That’s the starting point for the next level of performance.

Sales leaders often default to focusing on the bottom performers. That’s necessary, but incomplete. High performers need guidance, too. Not to be micromanaged, but to be challenged. Ask yourself: What are you doing to help your top performers improve? If the answer is “not much,” you’re leaving growth on the table.

There’s a tactical way to approach this.

Most companies conduct quarterly business reviews with customers. The same structure can be flipped inward and used as a coaching tool. Instead of asking what happened last quarter, ask what could happen next. What would success look like in the next 90 days? What challenges need to be addressed before they become problems?

This isn’t about adding another meeting to everyone’s calendar. It’s about intentional planning. One-to-one conversations that go deeper than pipeline reviews. The goal is to align on strategy, identify gaps in skills or processes, and develop a roadmap for improvement. Done right, it drives accountability and engagement simultaneously.

Salespeople often say they want more training. But training without context falls flat. Coaching provides that context. It’s individualized, relevant, and ongoing. It also sends a message: your development matters. That message builds loyalty. It also improves performance.

If you’re a CEO or founder managing your own sales or leading a small team, this applies even more. You’re not just the closer, you’re the coach. Your team’s performance will reflect your commitment to their growth.

Are you investing time to help them get better?
Or are you too busy chasing deals to build a repeatable system?

Coaching doesn’t have to be complicated.

Begin by evaluating three key areas:

network,
skills,
metrics.

Does your rep have enough network reach to generate leads? Do they have the tactical skills to progress deals? And are you tracking the right metrics to measure performance, not just outcomes? If any of those are unclear, that’s your starting point.

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AI in B2B Sales Isn’t Optional Anymore

by Sean O'Shaughnessey

Several months ago, I was serving as a fractional VP of Sales for a $50 million manufacturing company. Their top salesperson was a 15-year veteran who knew the industry inside and out. Yet he was consistently being outsold by a competitor’s much newer hire. At first, it didn’t make sense until we discovered the reason. The competitor’s rep wasn’t just more energetic or aggressive. They were AI-enabled. While my client’s rep was manually scrolling LinkedIn… AI in B2B Sales Isn’t Optional Anymore

Mid-Year Excellence: Four Strategic Moves Every Sales Leader Must Make

by Sean O'Shaughnessey

The second half of the year represents your greatest opportunity to accelerate past the competition. While other teams coast on first-half wins or scramble to recover from losses, top-performing sales leaders recognize mid-year as a strategic inflection point that can define their entire year.

The evidence is clear: teams that execute disciplined mid-year reviews consistently outperform their peers in achieving annual targets. This isn’t a coincidence; it’s the result of deliberate strategic moves that separate elite performers from the pack.

Set Crystal-Clear Expectations

Ambiguity is the silent killer of sales performance. Your team doesn’t need motivation speeches; they need laser-focused clarity on what success looks like and how to achieve it. This means defining specific revenue targets for the second half, establishing activity metrics that directly drive results, clarifying account priorities and resource allocation, and documenting success definitions for each team member.

The most effective sales leaders schedule one-on-one meetings immediately to document exactly what success looks like for each rep. They don’t leave anything to interpretation, and they track progress relentlessly. When expectations are crystal clear, performance tends to follow predictably.

Reassess Customer Potential with Fresh Eyes

One of the most costly mistakes sales teams make is evaluating accounts based solely on past performance. Markets shift, companies grow, and buying committees evolve. Yesterday’s underperformers could become tomorrow’s breakthrough accounts, but only if you’re paying attention to the signals.

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Two Tall Guys Talking Sales – Building a Sales Powerhouse—The 3 Most Underrated Skills with Jeff Parris – Episode 143

by Sean O'Shaughnessey

Sales isn’t about persuasion but service, resilience, and growth. In this episode of Two Tall Guys Talking Sales, co-hosts Kevin Lawson and Sean O’Shaughnessey welcome sales leader and former professional athlete Jeff Parris to explore the fundamental skills that separate elite salespeople from the rest. Drawing on decades of experience, Jeff shares three often-overlooked yet foundational competencies that drive sales success, and they’re not what you’d expect. Whether you’re a VP of Sales building a… Two Tall Guys Talking Sales – Building a Sales Powerhouse—The 3 Most Underrated Skills with Jeff Parris – Episode 143

Validation Events: The Unsung Hero of Sales Process Discipline

by Sean O'Shaughnessey

In the complex world of B2B selling, trust is built in stages. The challenge in all sales campaigns is ensuring the prospect trusts they are making the best decision for their business.

Do they trust that the salesperson is giving them all of the information?
Do they trust that the company will support them after the sale?
Do they trust that the product will perform as they expect it to perform?

As I have explained in my book, Eliminate Your Competition, as well as the blog for that book and in this blog, the prospect needs to trust all three elements the salesperson is selling:

They need to trust the product.
They need to trust the company behind the product.
They need to trust the salesperson.

Prospects listen to your sales message, review your materials, and hear your claims, but none of that guarantees belief or trust. Trust is validated when your claims are validated. That’s why validation events are crucial to any rigorous sales process.

In The Qualified Sales Leader, John McMahon stresses the importance of customer-driven validation. He cautions sales leaders against relying on internal optimism or anecdotal “good signals” from prospects. Instead, McMahon emphasizes observable proof—real buyer behavior that confirms alignment, commitment, and value. Validation events are when the customer takes action to validate that what you’ve promised is accurate and valuable.

An excellent sample sale process flow looks like this:

Discover
Scoping
Economic Buyer Meeting
Validation Event
Business Case and Final Proposal
Negotiate and Close

As you can see, the Validation Event is the last step before creating the final business case, which will be bundled with your final proposal.

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Two Tall Guys Talking Sales – Steve Caton Shares When to Sell, When to Coach, and When to Hire: Strategic Sales Management That Drives Growth – Episode 137

by Sean O'Shaughnessey

In this powerful episode of Two Tall Guys Talking Sales, Kevin Lawson and Sean O’Shaughnessey are joined once again by Steve Caton, CEO of Altezza Solutions, for a thought-provoking conversation that zeroes in on one of the toughest decisions in sales leadership: when to sell, when to coach, and when to hire. Whether you’re a business owner, VP of Sales, or a player-coach juggling a quota and a team, this episode brings clarity to the… Two Tall Guys Talking Sales – Steve Caton Shares When to Sell, When to Coach, and When to Hire: Strategic Sales Management That Drives Growth – Episode 137

Two Tall Guys Talking Sales – Winning Without Discounting: Mastering Value Selling at Premium Prices – Episode 135

by Sean O'Shaughnessey

When it comes to holding firm on pricing, many salespeople stumble at the finish line, undermining their value and margin in pursuit of a quick win. In this episode of Two Tall Guys Talking Sales, Kevin Lawson and Sean O’Shaughnessey explore the essential topic of value selling, especially when offering a premium-priced solution. They break down how business acumen, sales strategy, and relationship-based selling contribute to sales success—and how to confidently command the price your… Two Tall Guys Talking Sales – Winning Without Discounting: Mastering Value Selling at Premium Prices – Episode 135

The Three Pillars of Sales Success: Ideal Client Profiles, Effective Messaging, and Aspirational Offers

by Sean O'Shaughnessey

Let’s start this article with a rhetorical question to the sales professionals, sales managers, or CEOs: Have you ever found yourself guilty of sending messages to prospects without fully considering their specific needs or how your offer aligns with them?

If so, you’re not alone—this is a common pitfall in sales. The good news is, it’s entirely fixable by developing a straightforward, strategic approach.

An effective sales strategy hinges on three core components: defining your ideal client profile (ICP), crafting a resonant message, and presenting a compelling offer. These elements are interconnected. Mastering their alignment will significantly enhance your sales effectiveness.

Ideal Client Profile

Let’s start with the ideal client profile. How well do you know the companies you’re targeting? Identifying your ideal customer is foundational to your entire sales approach. It’s not enough to say that your market is “small businesses” or “tech companies.” Instead, think about your best clients—the ones you genuinely enjoy working with, who value your product, and who generate profitable, sustainable business. Think about companies that rarely devalue your product or service by asking for a discount. What do these clients have in common?

Now that you have your favorite customers from above, reflect on your top five or ten accounts. Are they in the same industry? Do they share similar challenges or company structures? Perhaps they all have common goals that your product consistently solves. Pinpoint these commonalities. This process will help you create a precise and actionable ideal client profile.

But don’t stop at company-level characteristics. Remember, even in B2B sales, you’re ultimately selling to individuals. Identify the specific roles or buyers within these organizations that are responsible for making buying decisions. Who are these decision-makers? What motivates them personally and professionally? Do they all have the same kind of college education? Do they all have similar career paths? Understanding the people behind the logo makes your outreach more personal, targeted, and effective.

What is your message?

Once you’ve developed a clear picture of your ideal client and the people within those companies, the next step is crafting a message that reflects your value-selling message. This message is how you communicate your value proposition—it’s the bridge between your product and your prospect’s needs. Too often, sales messaging falls flat because it focuses heavily on the seller rather than the buyer. Statements that emphasize “we,” “I,” or “our product” rarely resonate deeply. Instead, effective messaging highlights the customer’s perspective, clearly communicating the benefits they will experience.

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